I have always had this issue... even back in school.

When it was my friends back in Jr. High my boyfriends would complain about doing everything together but yet he would adopt my friends....

In High School, due to the guy I was with I lost all of my friends and so his friends became my friends. However he too would complain that we did everything together.

When we broke up the friends stayed his friends and I had to start over, I had nothing. So I inserted myself in with a few people and became friends with them. One of those people ended up becoming my husband. And though the friends we used to hang out with we really don't anymore due to you just grow up and change interests. A few people we used to hang out with are still our friends and we have met a few along the way.

I'm not a normal girl, I don't like girly things. I would rather play video games and table top games and just hang out doing stupid shit. I Hate gossip, not really into doing nails or my hair or drinking fruity wine. I don't like the normal girl shit.

So it is hard to become friends with people because I don't get along with girls and normally when it is a guy they just keep hitting on me. My husband on the other hand can go to work and be friends with mostly girls that I know he flirts with, he's not dead. But I just don't like it when guys flirt with me. The only guy that matters is my husband and he really doesn't flirt with me anymore.

But anyways to make this point now, I just find it odd that he complains that we do everything together. I am really at a stand still and have no clue what to do.

He knew I was interested in the paranormal, so he introduced me to a few work friends. He had no intention on staying part of the group but now hes all gung-ho about it. I asked him to come to a few meetings because it was an all male group and I didn't know anyone... Three days a week we get together with out friends to play games.

What am I supposed to do?

I mean he goes to work and then comes home... of course we spend a lot of time together... we live together. Am I supposed to lock myself away until night time and then come out to ready for bed and go to sleep? Even before in our old apartment I would stay in the bedroom and him in the living room and once in a while he would say the same thing. "We do everything together."

I'm Lost.

I've decided to just stay in the bedroom now... let him have run of the house for a while. When he wants to see me or so something with me he can make the move. I am okay with that for now. It may work this time and give him the space he needs, before out bedroom was off the living room, now there is a room between so its like I am home alone, or the other way around.

Here is to hopeing this may help him with whatever he needs.